I think the difference here is load.
On an Austin 7 for it's day it was expected to be a work horse, even pulling mother in law about would get you an overload ticket these days.
Oils were nowhere near as good.
Now take the seal lion and other model engines. I dare say none of these ever ran 40 hours max in their whole lives so it's really comparing apples to oranges.
As regards big ends I did read an article some years ago about tuning these for racing and the recommendation was for the outside edges of the shells on No's 2 and 3 to be scraped to give a barrel shape to the shell to prevent rubbing when the crank did bend. No's 1 and 4 were recommended to only have the inner sides scraped.
Makes a lot of sense when you think about it and obviously the racing guys had learn the hard way but I bet this info was never passed on to the general motoring public.
Many many moons ago when Milton Keynes was only fields we used to run a fleet, OK small fleet, 7, Moggie Minor vans with the 803 OHV valve engine. These were always bought decent second hand then abused just short of the Geneva Convention. It was good one that managed 9 months before running a crank. We got that good at it that two guys could do one, engine out, strip, new crank and bearing and back in, in just under 3 hours.
Once we moved onto the 998cc OHV thousand engine we hardly had any engine problems