Welcome Ralph!
By all means, find a Club, and join it.
Unless it is an unusual one, you will be made welcome, and it will cater for a variety of interests.
Last year, at Spalding, our Club stand showed Locos, Rolling Stock, a Road Engine, Clocks, Stationary Engines, Historic Artillery, and Workshop Tooling, so plenty to choose from there. And there will many others like that.
Visiting one of the major exhibitions, you may well find a Society close to your home.
As a member you will see and hear how other folk work, and solve problems. There will always be advice available, probably someone will be prepared to lend a tool for a one off job that doesn't justify buying, and someone will either be prepared to come round and help, or invite you to take your problem to their workshop.
"That's too big for your lathe, bring round to me, and we'll do it together"
Yes, you will run across the odd misery, but they are everywhere, not just in Model Engineering, so just avoid them, and stick with the members who will be welcoming, helpful and friendly..
In my experience, visiting other Clubs, as a Club member you will be made welcome.
As already said, there are lot of positives to being a Club member.
Howard