Hi Reg, there is no way that the grooved taper pin can lock the tailstock to the bed, as it has no contact with it. In the photo below you will see inside the bore that slides on the bed.

The tailstock has two socket head screws in association to locking/releasing it on the bed. To release the tailstock you need to slacken off the locking screw, (which is shown as 5 in the operating instructions on page 21) you then screw the forcing screw 6 up to the biting point, and then tighten it no more than a quarter of a turn and the tailstock should be released enough to slide it along the bed to your desired position. The worst thing you will do by over tightening the forcing screw, is crack the tailstock casting.
Welcome to the forum, by the way.
Regards Nick.