Hello Brian,
Heavy feed, slow speed and use coolant. Much also depends on the grade you are machining, some like 304 are much more amenable and will turn like high carbon steels..
Drilling is best done by 'peck' drilling and with sharp drills, but don't overload it; while swatf comes out of the hole it is OK, the instant it stops withdraw the drill and sharpen it if necessary..
Stainless can be machined with a light cut, in that case increase the feed rate to keep a curl of swarf coming away
Regards
Brian