UPDATE:
Thanks to all for your suggestions and help – I’ve cracked it!!! (well you cracked it)
Took the crossslide off cleaned up and re-seated, upped the speed to 250rpm – this alone helped, it worked 50% better after that but still flexing slightly.
I then reduced the tool overhang and made sure the toolpost was more central. 75% better.
Then I inverted the parting tool, reversed the chuck rotation – 85% better
Then I dug out my carbide tipped parting tool (3mm tip) that I have never been able to use because it chattered like a bugger, inverted. PERFECT – went through it like butter!!!
Thanks again for all your help – I am a happy bunny again!
PS has anyone got a turning speed chart for EN1A – 303 free cutting stainless etc in RPM??? All I can find is metres or feet and I can’t find out how to translate.
Again thanks, it really is much appreciated