Hi all, thanks for the replies, I've read all of it.
Thanks to John Fletcher, I shall read yours in more detail later when I get a bit more time.
Just thought of putting some photos up, on something I thought, correct me if I'm wrong please.
So what I've done was set my facing off tool in the tool post, slightly below what I think is the centre, surely by doing this it would not face perfectly and leave a little pointy bit on the round bar…this little bit would be where the exact centre is?
then I brought he tail stock with a dead centre on it and tried to match it to the pointy bit on the bar…. would this work?
I did read about mounting a dead centre on the chuck but I dont have one that is not tappered, so I'm guessing it wouldnt stay completly dead centre, right?
you can just see here, the little tip out of the round bar

and from above

I also took some photos of the motor


Sorry, not much info, just in a rush at the moment, will come back later.
thanks to all who have helped so far, really really appreciate the help.
thanks
JP