First, no the FIL was not in the nuclear business. He was a toolmaker.
I do know someone who is and I asked him if he could take it into work and get it checked. The answer was not printable 
It doesn't oxidise, the scraping in that picture was done before christmas. It is also fairly soft – when scraped with a knife it feels as soft as copper although I haven't tried properly cutting it. I am pretty sure the colour is the base metal, not any form of plating.
It also looks like it has been cut from a longer rod, both ends sawn and the dark covering in the pictures is I think just general dirt from sitting in a box of rubbish for quite a few years.
So far I am liking Rod's suggestion. I gather copper tungsten is used for welding electrodes so that would fit with where the FIL worked.
Shame, I was trying to convince myself it was 18ct Gold although I knew that was a bit unlikely 