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I’d use a twist-fit connector designed for repeated connection and disconnection. A union is intended to be connected and stay connected.
I don’t know your particular locomotive but miniature locomotives typically have three connections from the tender:
1) To the axle-pump (if fitted. Some use two injectors instead.)
2) Injector(s)
3) Delivery from a hand-pump in the tank.
Of these only the hand-pump connection takes any significant pressure (above boiler pressure in fact), and that’s where you’d use the twist-fit or similar clip action.
Alerternatively, you can use a repeat-use type screwed connector, often one that seals by a small O-ring or flat rubber washer between two flat faces, the ring washer surrounding a hollow spigot on the upstream side that mates with a counterbore in the downstream flange. Rather as on small cartridge-gas tools like picnic-stoves. I have not seen connectors of this type made for model locomotives but there is no reason you could not design and make your own.
The axle-pump and injector feeds are partly gravity, partly suction. It is common to use here, simple silicon-rubber hose pushed onto smooth pipe stubs an inch or so long. Give the stubs nicely rounded end edges to avoid scraping the hose wall.
That feeding the injector does need be air-tight though, as even a tiny air-leak into the water line under the suction created by the injector, will prevent the device from working properly. The most likely place for such a leak is a push-on hose connection; but a silicone-rubber tube of appropriate size on a pipe tail of good cylindricity and surface finish is usually reliable.
Clues that air is being drawn into the injector are difficulty adjusting the water and steam valves to get it to work at all, and irregular running. Also, the injector may chirrup like an excited guinea-pig when it does manage to overcome the air-leak. It should be practically silent.
The first two can also inidcate over-warm feed-water, partial blockages including scale in the cones, or the injector’s internal, non-return, starting valve not seating fully.