HI, Ray,
Didn't post earlier – your post must have dropped off the list before I got there, and today I was browsing, and saw no-one had replied.
I had a similar problem – I didn't find a 'bulk solution) but I put several nuts on a long 6BA bolt, which made it easier to hold, then polished them on a small polishing wheel to do the sides. To polish the ends, I locknutted two nuts near the end of a bolt leaving about 3mm of the bolt thread exposed, then put the nut I wanted to clean on the end. Then I could use the bolt as a sort of handle to hold it against the polishing wheel. I tried both polishing compo and metal polish on the wheel, but both gave about the same finished result.
I realise this is probably not the best way, and it can be a bit rough on the fingers. (gets hot if you polish for too long) – I only had about 30 nuts/bolts to do – I think I would make a couple of small holders if I had to do more. I did find that a polishing wheel gave me a good finish (provided the nuts were not badly corroded).