Thanks Clive, I appreciate your input.
Sweetpea has dominated my thoughts over the past few weeks and I'm still keen on this loco. A marine boiler is appealing because I could construct it myself very cheaply in steel. Tig welding is my thing and a marine boiler should be easier. Hackworth valvegear also promises to be simpler than Walschaerts, though the slip eccentric of Toby also has appeal as does the marine boiler.
I love the looks of Railmotor 2, but again the valvegear is more complex than either Toby or Sweetpea, and it's a stayed boiler. I've spent a lot of time assessing the various combinations and then saw Toby as being ideal as a starter, but as you remarked, with the added complication of having to scale up.
I have to take into account my personal idiosyncracies. I'm not good at long-term projects so a loco has to be reasonably quick and uncomplicated, although I realise that any loco needs much time. I'm also limited in my facilities and funds, but being newly-retired I should have plenty of time and fewer distractions.
I like setting myself against obstacles for the sheer pleasure of overcoming them, but I'm not a slave to it. I can also adapt things to suit a different purpose. My son once said he'd never known anyone like me who can readily ruin one tool to create another…we can become victims of our foibles.
Anyway after all that, I'll take on board what you've said and keep my options open. It will be a while before I make a decision and it has to be the right one for me, with everything taken into account as much as I'm able.
Cheers, Martin