Hi Michael ,
Packing with graphited yarn is a black art .
The fit that you want on a newly packed piston is ‘ just stiff ‘ in the cylinder bore . Bit difficult to quantify but something like 1 to 2 lbf to move it is ok . After just one steam up the yarn will settle down and run much more easily .
As bought graphited yarn can be to some extent ‘ rolling pinned ‘ to a better shape and size – just roll a bit of round bar along it against a clean hard surface .
You may wish to consider fitting O rings instead . If you want to do this ask again and I or someone else will tell you how to set about it .
MW