Hello Stuart
I build RC yachts and race IOM yachts. Mine tend to be built for performance rather than scale so are likely to be more stressed than yours. I frequently glue aluminium bits together and only ever use the slow cure Spanish version of Araldite which is always to hand. I have never found it necessary to buy special products or use special processes for the very small usage. I have two types of Loctite that get quite a lot of use on assemblies and fastenings. The important things to do are:
Consider the gluing area. Aim to make it as large as possible within the design constraints.
Try to design the fitting to avoid peel forces.
Clean and lightly abrade: Here I do a first clean with acetone turning the cloth at each pass to avoid re-depositing grease or dirt. Acetone is a fast solvent so it is quite easy to just move contaminates around if you are not careful. Then I rough the surface by pulling across a Permagrit block and then a final single, one direction wipe with a clean cloth and acetone. I have already mixed the glue and as soon as the acetone has evaporated which is seconds only, on goes the glue. This seals the surfaces and reduces the time available for the aluminium to oxidise. I use plain and pre-anodised sections with equal good effect.
Very occasionally I may pin or rivet a joint as belt and braces using thin brass rod and peening over the ends.
I too sail on the sea but don't worry too much about corrosion even with dissimilar metals. The boats are only out for a few hours at a time and in-between get a good rinse with fresh water. The rest of the time they are in the house.
I also use brass mainly for decorative reasons and of course that can be soldered. Would that be an option for you particularly if you are not too bothered about weight.
One day I am going to try the techniques for soldering aluminium hoping that will enable me to refine my designs. My obsession is keeping the weight out of the hull and rig so I can put it in the keel.
Tim R