I pull mine up pretty hard (Emco FB2 clone with 2MT spindle), but the machine has a captive drawbar so it also jacks the tool out with no hammering required. The spindle nose has two flats & the machine was supplied with a spanner to suit – the drawbar has a 6mm AF hexagon socket. The two combined offer a good grip to tighten or release the drawbar without stressing the bearings.
I made a face mill holder that, when inserted by hand, is around 2 thou clear of the spindle nose – tightening the drawbar brings the back face of the holder into firm contact with the end of the spindle nose. This is similar in principle to HSK or Capto tooling & makes for a stiffer connection, but also requires a good pull on the drawbar to accomplish..
I have not had any problems with tooling coming adrift in operation – likewise no problems extracting tooling after use, though it sometimes releases with a bit of a crack !
I also have an RF30 mill drill (3 MT taper) that has yet to be used in anger. That will require the drawbar to be made captive to remove the need to pound on the bearings while removing tooling.
Nigel B.