It took me quite a while to figure out how to fire my little 3-1/2" gauge Tich. Now, it's fun – not frustrating so keep at it.
Priming on big locomotives (full size) was a real problem if it happened; fortunately never to me when firing. Drain the water from the boiler, (what's left!) and fill it up, and try again. Once the impurities that cause priming are out of the boiler, you'll be ok.
There's nothing wrong with a challenge, because, once you get past it, you'll feel great.
Another JohnS.