Brian, the head of my drill weighed about 40kg, I first tried a 400n strut, but it was too strong, I then tried 350n strut, it was about right, but maybe still a little too strong, it's difficult too calculate exactly, if I was doing it again, I'd buy an adjustable gas strut, if my memory serves me right, they were 20 something quid, that way you can fine tune it.
The benefits of hindsight.
But like I say, don't worry too much about the initial compression, even really low weight rating struts can be difficult to compress without leverage.