Ed, a long time ago I did a little home etching of copper clad circuit boards using resist and ferric chloride with very variable results. I would suggest that trying to do coach sides this way is unlikely to be successful, especially using ironed on photocopy toner. I know that some have advocated this method, but I've only seen it used for small components.
I'd suggest having a look at the Worsley Works web site. They do a large number of etched coach sides in a variety of scales, and will scale up or down as necessary to 7mm, so if you find one in 4mm scale, they can do it for you in 7mm. If you already have the sides drawn, Worsley may be able to work them up and produce the sides for you. This way you know you are getting something that will work.
I have produced etched parts in 16mm scale doing the artwork myself and then having it commercially etched. I have found that the thickness of metal depends on the degree of detail you want. So for example, you cannot etch a hole for say a handrail that is smaller in diameter than the thickness of the brass. Similarly things like nameplates have to be etched onto thinner material in order to keep the sharp edges of the lettering. Most of the etching was done for me by PPD – they have a website which has guidance on how to design and draw for etching.
So, my advice would be to have a commercial company do the etching of your design. They will look at your artwork and decide the best thickness to use.
Edited By Jonathan Mead on 18/02/2016 18:16:37