If you could make a replica control valve, but with a tapered end, (Say 30 degrees angle ) so that the taper enters the hole when closed.
Unscrewing the valve will open up a small annular passage for the hydraulic oil, rather than the minute retraction needed to give the same rate of descent.
HTH
Otherwise, you just have to improve motor control skills!
I have the same control system on my Epco Trolley Jack, and Clark Engine Crane, but have never had a problem!
Howard