In 1961 I bought my first motorized transport, a Lambretta scooter. This was metric, so metric open-ended spanners were bought.
12 months later I swopped it for a Matchless M/c. I had to buy either Whit/BSF or A/F openended spanners. Forget which.
A further 12 months and I bought an Austin A35 van, followed 2 years later by a Morris 1000. Both used either Whit/BSF and/or A/F. I believe there was something odd about these vehicles in that they did not use standard nuts and bolts, possibly UNC/UNF threads but with A/F spanners. Around this time I also bought a Whit/BSF & A/F socket set and both Whit/BSF & A/F ring spanners.
In 1969 I bought a VW Beetle. Back to Metric. But now I had to buy matching ring spanners, and matching sockets.
I was now fully set up for all three systems.
Later I bought Maxi's & a Montego – back to A/F.
Today, I neither know nor care, I've given up on car maintenance, but you will notice that it was a progression for me spread over 8 years.
Does that help? Possibly not. But if you get hold of Harold Hall's book "Metalworker's Data Book" Number 42 in the Workshop Practice Series, you will find that Section 7 covers all these details and lists the various sizes in a chart so that for example for A/F 3/4 inch, you will find that Metric 19mm is 2 thou smaller hence the Metric tool may well fit, and if my experience is anything to go by, it will be a better fit as well.
Incidently, this same book may help with your other question re Metric/Imperial lathes.
Regards,
Peter G. Shaw