How about making up a strap wrench to hold the Collet chuck? The maximum torque that it can withstand will be the limiting factor.
As already said, the ideal is to use another collet in the R8 spindle, to hold a carbide end mill to produce two flats on the current collet chuck. The A / F size should be that of an existing spanner that you have. If there is no suitable spanner, the next job is to take a piece of 8 x 25 or 30 mm flat bar and machine a slot into to it to make a spanner.
If the worst comes to the worst, as an interim, take two pieces of 12mm square bar, clamp together and drill through both, say 5mm, open up the first to 6mm and tap M6. Centre distance needs to be about 8mm greater than the chuck OD. Using two M6 bolts of a suitable length, clamp together, with one each side of the chuck
This is bigger version of the Apprentice's simple Tap Wrench. Tighten the M6 bolts and use the gadget as a handle to hold the chuck while the C spanner is used on the clamp nut for the ER collets.
For greater grip, if you don't mind the scratches, line the bars with Emery!
One job always creates three others!
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