I believe the handle of my ER25 spanner is about 25 centimeters long. I don't really have to give it more than a good normal drag, and I can't remember having had a problem with the cutters going anywhere. (If more torque were needed I figure they would have made the spanners longer – just as the length of normal spanners standards are adjusted to the respective corresponding bolt/ nut torque requirements).
Ball nuts do increase the grip, but I never have a problem with the normal nuts either. I do have a bench holder and that helps of course.
I suspect the problem might be that the cutter is not perfectly centered in the collet. An indication of that might be that the gaps at the top are not evenly sized. Common causes of that is for instance putting the collet into the tool holder before putting on the nut, not tilting the collet over the lip inside the nut, overtorque or simply a cutter size outside of the collet range.
If it isn't any those I think I'll place my cents on a bad collet. Blame the tools 
Edited By Vidar on 05/10/2019 20:02:02