I think the problem arises because the original ML 10 top slide was not designed to have a 4 way toolpost, just a single tool clamped directly onto the slide.
I had similar situation on my ML10 which has a "foreign" top slide, and I took quite a bit of material off the slide and the toolpost, using the 4 jaw chuck and an alternative toolpost mounted on the cross slide as I had no other machine available. This worked out well, though at the expense of the indexing ratchet.
If you only need 2mm or so you should be able to take all that safely off the toolpost, and if you have a mill you can do it be deepening the tool slots rather than reducing the underside. The lower flange on my toolpost is now 7mm thick and it still seems very substantial, so 6mm is perhaps a safe limit.
I hope this is some help.