Anecdotally at least, Dave S raises a common point. Although obviously we cannot condemn all clubs by the bechavour of just one, it does seem some are so centred on railways that other interests dare not cross the running-shed’s threshold.
It may be that some will welcome the clock-makers, the ornamental-turners, the buidlers of traction-engines or radial aero-engines; but no obviously, so deter by omission rather than commission.
There are though dangers by no means confined to model-engineering or any craft hobby, clubs; those of cliques, proprietorial attitudes and unfriendly individuals. I think these more “fatal” than other means to a demise.
The first is obvious: small herds who regard themselves as somehow special even within the club, and do not welcome newcomers. The visitor who chances to meet only the clique, which tends to form among the regulars anyway, will son be put off by the unwelcoming attitude.
The proprietorial attitude is often linked to the clique. This can develop among individuals who have spent years and quite possibly a lot of their own money (indirectly, by their own transport or tools costs) building the club’s assets and/or serving on its committee that they regard the place as their own.
The unfriendly individual might genuinely be friendly but shy and not easily sociable towards strangers, so appears standoff-ish and unwelcoming although manages somehow to fit into the club in his or her own way. Far worse though is the type who thinks him or her self special and although perhaps rubbing along with fellow-members, or has a peculiarly abrasive sense of humour. This type can seem (or be) very arrogant, deterring all but the most determined and understanding, potential member.
I have seen examples of all three, in different clubs; not all in model-engineering.
My own, and another, caving clubs offering self-catering accommodation to guest clubs, both suffered from the cliques and the “proprietors” at various times in the past, giving both clubs a bad reputation that tooks some time to dispel.
One, only one, member of my own model-engineering society was so rude to three members who had driven some twenty miles from their homes, bringing a locomotive with them, to help at a public event that the three left! The loco owner was particularly sensitive and the others reported to me he was badly hurt by being told “I say who runs on our tracks” – which was not even true.
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All three forms of misbehaviour can have a very deleterious effect on any club, be it arts-and-crafts, outdoor-pursuits, sports or simply a social-club with no specific hobby.
However, I think things have changed within model-engineering, and to the better.
For example, another society to which I belong was founded several decades ago by people whose own branch of the hobby was not really understood or accepted by many clubs. Now though, I think more railway-based clubs are more accepting of non-railway interests. My home society has slowly developed from almost exclusively railway-based, to numbering more miniature traction-engines than locomotives – plus stationary engines – among its members; of whom we have more than in the past. Some of the owners have both road and rail steam! So too, many of the club stands at the exhibitions, display wide ranges of models, tools, clocks and so on.
Jason’s point about railway-based clubs revolving around having to operate the railway to raise money to maintain the railway, is valid, because it can make the club look as if that is all it does.
In the end though, a society devoted to a hobby is a bunch of people who should be sociable in sharing their hobby, and how healthy the society is, especially including welcoming new members, is very much down to the people within it.