I am still learning about selection of feeds, speeds and depth, and width, of cut.
Within reason cutter speed is not that important. Too slow and the cut will takes ages but not affect the cutter. Too fast will heat up the cutter so some caution needed. Are you running HSS or carbide mills? A carbide cutter will run dull red although that is pushing it a little.
The most important parameter as far as the cutter is concerned is feedrate. Although it is better to think of it in terms of chip load, ie, feed per tooth. A milling cutter needs to cut, not rub. The quickest way to blunt a cutter is to run at too low a chip load. I am not familiar with small mills so others are probably better placed to suggest numbers.
It helps to think about the process of conventional milling. As a tooth comes round towards the work the initial cut is zero. As the cutter moves forward the tooth will start to encounter material left by the previous tooth. The problem arises because the cutter is flexible and the edge is not sharp but is rounded. It will initially tend to ride over the work and bend away from the cut before eventually overcoming the tendency to bend and finally cutting into the metal. It is that bending and rubbing of the tooth that causes rapid wear. It is why climb milling is better, in the sense that as the tooth contacts the work it is immediately cutting, no rubbing. I am not suggesting you climb mill on a small mill though.
The cutter edge may be sharp but on a small scale it will have a radius. The radius might be small, microns, but is there and affects the cutting process.
Good advice is don’t pussyfoot around with feedrates; feed slowly to “save” the cutter and the opposite will result. You need to produce swarf not fine dust.
Julie