Tim: Yeah I think you're right that using the door as a former would work with the brass plate.
Duncan: Good idea! I rung a local engineering firm who gave a reasonable quote and where happy to assemble when I said stainless was okay. I think I figured that brass would be easiest, but obviously not!
CuP Alloys: Thanks for the tutorial, holding it together with fine wire is a really interesting method, and sounds very simple. I haven't considered adhesives, mainly because I'm paranoid that if the letter box fails, I may miss a copy of 'Model Engineer'.
Jason B: Seems like pins are the way to go to reliably locate things. I'll be interested to see how the engineering firm I found today do it.
Nicholas: That's a good idea, and gets the part count down too.
Bazyle: Sorry I missed the Zoom call. Thanks for the invite. St Katherine's Priory is very close to my home so I may pop down (hopefully clutching a letter box) to say hello.
Dave: Managed to source one today.
Just need to find someone who can nickel plate the stainless. A couple of firms I rung today said they don't touch stainless. They suggested doing it with mild steel, but were very vague about how durable the plating would be to stop it corroding.
Thanks everyone for all of your help on my random project! It's been a real delight.