Colin
Your list of steps to take is correct. Probably the most difficult task will be doing the retying to hold the wires in place as threading through a cord can be tricky. However if you just snip the original loops but initially leave them in place and you may be able to use them to pull new thread through. However you can use small thin cable ties instead.
From what I can see from your pictures you will probably find three wires, sleeved in yellow, emerging from the coils on the outer rim of the windings. Another three wires will emerge from their respective windings nearer the centre.
It doesn't really matter what are start and finishes of the windings provided you can identify each of the three individual windings so you can connect them in true delta configuration. The marking is only required to ensure the motor will rotate in the right direction when connected to a 3 phase supply but if it doesn't swapping any two phase wires will make it rotate in the opposite direction.
If you'd like to PM me I'll give you my phone number and I can talk you through the process as you do it. If you can make a FaceTime or Zoom call I can watch you do it and comment.
Clive S