Specialist hydraulics or O ring supplier that im afraid.
Where are you?
I have two proper BS 221 which roughly equates to 36ID X 43.5 O/D x 3.53 cross section.
The boxed sets will only be less than 2.92mm cross section for that 36mm ish I/D also marked 221 so some things wrong.
Is it something you are building in which case can change the design or to replace an existing O ring?
Have a look in yellow pages for a supplier local, some will do cash and not have to have minimum order usually £15 and £5 worth of same item.