There are companies that will test gas cylinders, but they are few and far between. I have two oxygen cylinders, one is part of an oxy-acelylene set and the other is in my glider.
I own the cylinder in my glider. It needs testing every five years. I take it to a place at Oxford airport, who then send it on to a specialist supplier. It comes back tested, stamped and filled with aviation oxygen, which is supposed to be specially dried. The cost 3 years ago was about £80.
The oxy-acelylene cylinder is owned by the gas company, and testing is their responsibility. I think this is pretty common for industrial gas cylinders, in the UK at least. I pay a rental for the cylinder, and a fee when I exchange it for a full cylinder.
When I bought the glider cylinder it came with an on/off valve fitted, and I also purchased a constant flow regulator and mask. I’m not sure that the valves are generally available, as they normally come fitted to the bottles. I have bought a new regulator for the oxy-acelylene set, about £60 if I remember correctly. When I started renting an argon cylinder it came with the valve and regulator all built in. I believe this is quite common in the EU, so you can bet your pants it’ll be forced on us here too. The rental for the argon cylinder is a bit less than the plain bottle, the refill cost is a bit more, but the bottle runs at 3000psi rather than 2000psi, so you get more gas for the money.
In short I think you’ll have problems trying to sort your own bottle. Many years ago we did get some old military oxygen bottles checked and modified for use in gliders, but it was difficult then, probably damn near impossible now!
Regards,
Andrew