Hi Raymond,
Probably the first thing to do is work out what you want/need to make. That will give you an idea of the size of machine and complexity of software required.
I have no knowledge of the Syil machine. However I have been running a Tormach PCNC1100 with 4th axis in my workshop for the last three years. Overall I have been very pleased with my machine. I've made hundreds of parts in plastics, aluminium, cast iron, gauge plate and stainless steel. The machine has always done what I asked. I have had a few minor issues, but Tormach's support has been excellent, fast response and quick delivery from the US if required. In terms of accuracy I'd say the Tormach wasn't far off the normal jobbing professional CNC workshop. I've made prototypes of complex heatsinks that have then been replicated by a professional CNC company and have had the opportunity to measure both – not much difference. We rejected the professionally made heatsinks because they weren't up to scratch (didn't follow my advice), but that's another story.
I have not used NX, but I'd urge caution, as others have already mentioned. I use a lot of high end CAD for work (Mentor Graphics/Cadence/ProEngineer) and while the programs are incredibly versatile they are also extremely expensive, difficult to learn, and probably overkill even for small companies. I use Alibre for 3D CAD and Visualmill for CAM. I'm not convinced that Visualmill was the correct choice, but I'm not planning to change at the moment. If I was looking again I'd seriously consider OneCNC for CAM.
I did write a couple of articles on the Tormach for MEW. a while back If you don't have access to them PM me and we'll see what we can arrange.
Regards,
Andrew