Did this many years ago when my grandmother wanted a fancy bottle converting into a lamp.
Tool used was a short length of 1/4 inch aluminium rod from an old television aerial chucked in a pistol drill mounted in a vertical stand. Cutting compound was coarse valve grinding paste (it was in the days when you could actually find the engine in your car and take it to pieces) with 3-in-1 oil to thin the paste a little and provide lubrication.
As to procedure I would guess the speed was probably quite high because I don't think the drill had a gear box. I do remember using absolute minimumum pressure, particularly towards the end, and lifting the tool fairly frequently to refresh the mixture in the hole and being surprised at how fast it cut.
The method works because abrasive particles become embedded in the soft aluminium (or copper) and create a grinding tool.
So long as you remember that it is a grinding, not a cutting operation, you should have no trouble. I would suggest have a practice run on a piece of scrap glass then go for it as an interesting (one off?) exercise, provided your friend agrees to accept the risk of failure.