Eric, think about start up. The motor shaft spins and the wheel tries to stand still and resist it. That results in a torque on a right hand nut TIGHTENING the nut to make sure the wheel is secure. The same argument applies to the opposite end of the grinder which is why the left hand wheel (standing facing the front of the machine has a left hand thread.
The only time the right hand thread on the right hand wheel would tent to come undone is if the motor shaft suddenly seized and the wheel tried to carry on. Normal run down on switch off takes long enough for the loosening torque to be low enough not to have an effect.