Hi,
Thanks for everyones help, I'm glad I asked the question, the answers have shed a lot of light on the problem.
As Jason says my reasoning for having a lot of bolts regularly spaced around the tube wall was to help get a good seal and not so much to do with bearing the load. Lets face it bolts are cheap and I can drill and tap as many holes as necessary. I mentioned the figure of 12 bolts per end plate as an example but if more are needed I'd use more.
I'm obviously missing something here but surely with a good sealant, O ring or whatever and enough bolts closely spaced I'd get good seal.
My original idea with the end plates was to use fairly thick plates and cut a very shallow taper to mate with a similar taper cut into the tube, then if I add a few stay rods through the entire tube with decent sized nuts at each end surely I'd be able to pull the plates into the taper before then adding the ring of bolts.
Presumably years ago before welding or modern sealants boilers were made by relying on lots of closely spaced bolts or rivets ?
I can see this boiler being able to stand a nuclear attack the way I'll built it 
Peter
Edited By Peter Nichols on 29/07/2015 21:20:50