Not a real Dremel but I tried my LiDL version on a similar job both with grindstone and flap wheel. Asking rather too much of it I thought. Needed to be awful careful with a grindstone as it wanted to bounce off and attack the wrong places. Probably because the tool is so light.
I didn't actually try my air die grinder. Although its heavier and more stable than the LiDL "Dremel" its stiil a bit bouncy-offy in my hands. Probably because I don't use it enough (about 5 or 10 times in 20 years) to get the muscles and reflexes dialed in. As I recall it I found an angle grinder as challenging the first half a dozen times but 40 years on I'm perhaps a little too casual.
What I found to work well was a small rubber sanding drum on a shaft held in a battery drill chuck, Cheap Machine Mart set got perhaps 40 years ago 'cos it looked useful and sat on the shelf ever since. Killed all the sanding cylinders in the right size but got the job done. This one **LINK** looks the same. I imagine the resilience of the rubber drum helps keep it under control. But you won't be able to get things dead flat.
A band filer might work well too. I have a LiDL one that is effective in the right places but it positively eats abrasive bands.
Clive