We had this discussion before. Official clamping force is much higher than you might expect – but I use a 4" tommy bar and a C-spanner and have only had a few problems (caused by not using full strength).
The length of ER25 closing spanners is between 140 and 210mm or about 6-8", but you can get heavy duty torque wrenches.
Rego Fix give values between 20-104 n/m, with a ball bearing nut for ER25 (20 for up to .3.5mm, 104 for over 8mm), but just 32 nm (24 foot pounds) for the fine-thread collet nuts.For the record normal is 1.5mm pitch, fine is 1mm. Mine are 1.5mm pitch.
Rego Fix advise using a torque wrench to avoid over tightening by more than 20%.
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Remember though , that these are recommendations for a production environment where the endmill is expected to stay put for its working life possible a carbide endmill being used at silly rpm on nasty materials.
On the other points, below 2.5mm the ER25 series have a collapse range of just 0.5mm. As for imperial end mills, I have a 1/4" collet as I prefer not to collapse a 7mm regularly down to 6.3mm and I have a lot of 1/4" shank FC3 cutters, but have had no problems using 10mm for 3/8" mills.
Neil