I have beside me one of my Tracy Tools charts. (The other is hanging up in the workshop.)
Looking at some of the odder-looking metric pitches listed above, it seems they might not be the "specials" they seem. It's possible some exist to suit particular trades.
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The racing-car engine could have M11 threads if the rest of its fastenings are metric.
By comparison, the pitch of the close-to-11mm, 7/16 X 14 tpi BSW is 1.81mm. (BSF is 0.71mm pitch).
There are four ISO-Metric M11s: 1.5mm pitch Coarse, and 0.75, 1.00 and 1.25mm, Fines.
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Howard's 4mm pitch finds itself in the standard ranges as M36 and M39 Coarse, and M52 fine – all still ISO-Metric – but obviously there is no reason we can't use non-standard pitches for special applications to our own designs.
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A risk with mixing standards that sort of fit together is that of distorting the threads unduly by unfairly concentrated loads, so best avoided in anything critical, or where there may be a risk of the nuts swapping around with each other.
Bolting garden-gates together, or something equally unlikely to fall apart, is a different matter, and though I'm sure we do all try to be consistent, as Chas points out, we would not really expect the El Cheapo building-site fastenings being any better than they should be. Nevertheless, if my workshop's travelling-hoist collapsed I would blame my design, workmanship or over-loading, not its fastenings, all ISO-Metric Coarse, even though they are all just ordinary nuts and bolts from the builders' merchants.
Often, the bigger threat to the joint's safety is not the nut on the bolt but the nut putting the nut on – by carelessness, thoughtlessness, tiredness, pressure to finish the work, etc. One of my old text-books, written before torque-wrenches, states that spanner lengths had become developed with respect to the torque exerted by them by the average fitter. So joints would be designed for the strengths necessary for their own duties, including the bolt diameters; but the spanners were sized to minimise the risk of the fitter breaking the bolts in normal use. Perhaps it was taken that he had sufficient skill to judge appropriate tightness and insufficient strength to snap the screw!
[I have once had to tighten a screw and nut until the former sheared! The M5 cap-screw and 'Nyloc' nut, both in stainless-steel, were in two rings holding together a two-part annular rubber housing, and one of the inner-ring pairs galled while still loose. As it was down inside a cylindrical cavity, inaccessible to any other tools, shearing the screw was the only option.]