Just an update to say that me and the van have made it back home in one piece at last today. Have been walking 7 miles each way to my unit for last month or so to try and sort this headache so in a fine mood here! Thank you very much to everybody for their very helpful advice – basically pinched bits from each one and it came good in the end – was slowed down by my cheap (but pretty useless!) bench drill holder from Machinemart – wouldn't have managed without it, just a £20 thing you put your power drill into and lower it down, but the vice that came with it broke, meaning that I had to G-clamp the flimsy thing shut all the time.
After further slight complications, ended up tapping the top of the hole to an M12, which is the only time it cut first time nice and easily, maybe it's easier to do big jumps in tap sizes in aluminium, when tried to go from M8 to M9 and then M9 to M10 was really hard to get a thread started. Made a grub screw from softer steel threaded rod.(Now an expert on my 8.8s and 12.9s, handy pdf document by Thomson rail, quite informative for the beginner I thought – just type in 'A Short Guide To Metric Nuts and Bolts Thomson Rail' and it comes up on Google). Drilled a 5mm hole with a cobalt bit into the softer steel, then tapped that with an HSS tap to M6, and hacksawed a slot for a screwdriver. This caused a problem as took me ages to find an 8mm slotted screwdriver bit, which I needed to use to properly tighten it down, the 7mm just kept falling down M6 hole, and couldn't use a normal 8mm screwdriver as bonnet was in the way! Didn't look particularly professional, but threadlocked it down and no sign of anything getting worse after doing 30 laps of my industrial estate, so took the gamble and drove home tonight.
If I'd known it would have ended up with an M12 would definitely have used Hellicoils, and if I had access to a lathe would then have made a stepped stud. Have read up on drilling speeds, and now a bit wiser, but definitely of the opinion that cobalt not much better than HSS and should get solid tungsten carbide drill bits in for all tricky jobs in the future. Plus why do they produce M7, M9 and M11 taps when it's virtually impossible to buy any corresponding bolts?! Not everyone has their own boltmaking equipment, although I am tempted to one day buy a lathe and start selling custom made bolts of strange sizes through eBay – the only M9 bolt of any length available in the whole world it seems is something from BMW, which has one of those male torx heads on it, and if someone doesn't have those sockets to hand, that's another £20 away! I think a fiver a custom made bolt might be a winner.
Anyway, waffling now, but wanted to say thank you for everyone's help, and will drop in from time to time, but unlikely I'll be able to assist with anybody's problem with my sparse knowledge, but you never know!
Cheers, Ian Dodds