I have evolved my own method, which seems to work and does not depend on any critical machining of dimensions.
This is what I do for a piston rod gland, taking 1/8″ diameter as an example, I use a ring that is nominally 1/8″ bore and 1/16″ cord size – so overall diameter 1/4″
The rod will be stainless steel, 1/8″ nominal size, polished lightly to reduce wear on the o-ring. The hole for the rod in the end cover will be reamed 1/8″ i.e. a good running fit for the rod, then counterbored 1/4″ with a drill or d-bit about 3/16″ deep. The gland itself will have a spigot about 3/16″ long which will be a free fit in the end cover, and be drilled a very free fit on the piston rod.
It is essential that only one of the holes is a close fit on the rod (the one in the cover) as if they are both close fits and slightly mis-aligned the gland will bind. Using screws to hold down the gland, rather than screwing it in means the risk of misalignment is minimised compared to a screw-in gland.
I use one or three screws to hold down the gland cover and find that under these circumstances it is easy to adjust the pressure so the gland is pressure tight. The sealing surfaces are the ring against the bottom of the counterbore and on the surface of the rod, which means that only the surface finish of the counterbore and the size and surface finish of the rod are critical.
Neil