Stainless steels come in a wide range of compositions, some are more resistant to the above mentioned problems. The problem is knowing and proving which one you’ve got, the more exotic ones are probably only available in large sheets.
Even tap water has trace amounts of chloride, and as it is boiled into steam the concentration in the boiler increases.
I’m not sure why you’d bother with nuts on the inside if you’re going to silver solder stays.