Most 3MT arbors have either a 3/8 BSW thread, or the newer ones, M12
Or it is possible to screw in a piece of M12 and then drill and tap 3/8 BSW, if you want to standardise.
The length of thread engagement will vary slightly from one arbor to another, but as long as you have at least one diameter engagement that should suffice.
Probably the way is to make up a drawbar, with a thread that is a little too long, and by trial and error find which 3MT arbor requires the drawbar to be shortened. If you end up with a thread that is 1 -2 mm shorter than the shortest arbor needs, you should be OK.
Howard