Russell,
I appreciate your caution about beryllium but in BeCu the Be is in solid solution with the copper or in very finely dispersed precipitates.
Here is an excerpt from a H&S sheet on BeCu handling.

The full document can be found here
Rather safer in the home workshop than lead solder, I suggest.
One great advantage of BeCu is that it can be manipulated in the soft state and then heat treated at relatively low temperature to harden the component. It is also, pretty much, corrosion proof.
Rod