I tend to use metric (cheaper) but have reasonable stocks of both metric and imperial fasteners. I just use what's to hand, and if appearance is important, I'll happily use a BA nut re-threaded with a larger metric thread. (Metric nuts are too thin to look right.) Where fasteners aren't immediately visible, I use metric cap-head screws for their strength and ready availability.
Metric hexagon screws are usually quite large in the head department, but that just means that they mimic the large head pre-war Whitworth AF to thread diameter quite well! You can always just skim off the "M 8.8" markings if it offends you – or make your own! However, their head height is, like the nuts, a bit thin for correct Whitworth appearance.
(Avoid imperial hexagon-socket countersunk screws at all costs – the size of the hexagon socket is too small to apply any serious torque to the screw. Metric ones are a lot better in that respect – but you still need a well-fitting, unworn Allen key.)