Join a club.
free information on tap. Somewhere to play trains
Read as much as you like, but to have real people show you and demonstrate stuff is the best way to get information to sink in.
Try a few local clubs and see what they offer, one may make better tea than the next but another may feel more comfortable to your needs. whatever, im sure you would be welcome unless you turned up with a dodgy looking boiler under your arm. Boiler testers are a funny breed and have to be cautious of what they cant see.