The tool tip is under pressure… everythings going great with a steady stream of swarf…
tool breaks into first hole and pushes forwards, tool tip now cutting 2x 3x 4x the amount it was a millisecond ago, and bang
an ultra slow feed rate might help, but it would probably blunt the tool
Doing anything you can to maximise stiffness would reduce the amount the tool "springs" forwards when it breaks through
If you can't improve stiffness then an upside down tool at the back will have more chance of survival than a tool at the front