Michael,
When I started my S50, (I'm more than halfway through at the moment) I discovered a brilliant article by Tubal Cain on the build of the S50. It's in the form of a 28 page PDF which I discovered on Google.
It's a fantastic article and was originally published in the "Model Engineer" starting on 21 August 1992.
I suggest you download this article and then all or most of your troubles will be answered.
Avoid the American " Tubal Cain" for this article.
I've tried retracing the link to the article download with no joy but so many people on this forum have made reference to it and have built it no doubt somebody will step forward with help on locating it.
Best of luck.
Len. P.
P.S. The con-rod is tapered throughout, not just on one side, study the drawing again.
Don't move the tailstock, use the topslide for the taper. The rounded ends are normally done with "buttons" as the article explains. Much better than trying to do it by freehand filing.