Conventionally, when making leaf springs to scale they are far too stiff, so the solutions are either to slot the leaves, replace some or all of them with Tufnol or similar or to replace each leaf with a number of thinner ones, so I suspect your springs, if each leaf is made up of a number of thinner ones will be softer not harder than as drawn.
As a 7 1/4" locomotive the driver sits on the tender so it has to be able to take a reasonable amount of weight (particularly in my own case!!)
The club Highlander is off the rails at present awaiting a new boiler and repairs, but I can have a look at/take photos of the tender next weekend if it helps.
Nick