Not with a bang but a whimper…
In the end I followed the instructions on the council website, and took it to the depot, pointed out that it was very dangerous, booked it in with no more than slightly raised eyebrows, and they put it in the chemical vault.
In some ways I am surprised, for over a decade councils have been reducing the amount of waste they will take without charge. But as has been pointed out, it is probably less trouble for them to collect it, or accept it, than have it turning up all over the place. Also, I suppose that any item that has not already become an incident requiring the fire brigade is likely to be safe for trained personnel to take away.
I was a little concerned that hazardous waste handling at the council tip seemed to rely overmuch on whether things had hazard symbols or not, which older materials may not. But they did seem to work on a suspicion principle, I was asked what a tiny antique tin marked 'gold size' contained. Since according to Wikipedia size is 'any one of numerous specific substances', that may be a question without an answer.
The tip concerned seemed to have more staff than Bristol's Avonmouth tip, taking a more active role in dealing with the waste, in fact remarkably helpful. Bristol's hazardous waste section speaks only of Asbestos, Fluorescent tubes and paints and specifically says that they do not collect chemicals. I doubt if 'household chemicals' covers HF.
The cheapest quote for collection was from PHS Atherstone, at 185 pounds, ex. VAT for 'collection when in area'.
Other quotes were 250 and 350 pounds. It was obvious that collecting odd bottles of HF is not part of anybody's routine business, nobody read off a standard price list, they all had to make a formal quote..
So thank you to everyone who contributed suggestions. Even those that were pointing out something that I had already considered were a useful prod to looking at it again.
John Hall